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  • Falcopunt@alien.topBtoRunningMarathon pre-run present
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    1 year ago

    This is very sweet, and I might be weird in this but I wouldn’t want any gift beforehand. In this essay I will…

    I know that I have what I’ll call non standard emotions and a particular set of neuroses, but if I got a pre race gift I wouldn’t feel like I earned it yet, I would fixate on it through the race, and I would feel extra pressure to perform and if I didn’t meet all of my goals I would then be dismayed that someone did something super nice and great for me, but I don’t even deserve it. Unless you know for sure your husband won’t feel any of these things, I would simply offer your unwavering support before the race and abstain from any gift giving until after.

    That being said if he doesn’t have recovery sandals like Oofos or Hoka you should briefly steal a pair of his running shoes, go to your local running shoe store and have them size them off of your sample and give him some recovery slides to him at the finish line. (I think slides are better than the flip flops because you can keep your socks on).